100 things, stolen! April 27, 2007
Posted by spacemom in : Spacemom , trackbackThis is stolen from American Family and Chicago Mom!
100 things about Spacemom
- I really like Buffalo New York
- I am starting to really enjoy Boston Massachusetts
- I am the second child of a two child family
- My sister is 5 years older than me
- My mom had 5 pregnancies
- Mom fell down a flight of stairs when she was 3 months pregnant with me and broke the amniotic sac
- The doctor told her to rest and then told Dad outside of the room that she would lose this pregnancy
- She didn’t
- I was a loner in elementary school
- I only had 2 close friends
- In Middle school, the circle grew to include 2 more
- I still talk to 2 of these women on a semi-regular basis
- Crazy H is one of these friends
- She lives 20 minutes from me now
- We met when I was 4
- My best friend now lives in the same small town we grew up in
- She has 2 kids
- And she is a widow
- Her husband died in the Army
- I will never forget that day, January 6, 2000
- He was 22 days shy of 30 years old
- I have always loved astronomy
- Since I was 5, I would watch satellites when we went camping
- I hated camping
- And spiders. I hate spiders
- I once could name all 88 constellations
- I can still identify most of the Northern ones within a few minutes in a dark site
- My first telescope was a cheap one.
- It took me almost 30 minutes to get the moon in view
- I was scared to look in the telescope because I might see something scary
- I worked at 3 different places during high school and college
- The first was the museum of science in Buffalo.
- The first signs of overt racism came in when people asked me if I was scared to drive there
- I wasn’t scared and only once people mentioned it did I notice the area was predominately African-American
- The second was an amusement park that is now owned by Six Flags.
- I worked in the commissary
- I loved making popcorn
- It would take 1 hour to make 10 garbage bags full of popcorn
- I loved mixing the sugar and cotton candy flavor
- I would sneeze pink or blue after mixing it up for hours
- When an apple fell in the candy mix one day, I got a 3rd degree burn on my finger.
- The park wanted me to just work through it
- I insisted on going to a doctor.
- I got fired the day I refused to sell beer because it would have left two 14 year olds in the commissary to do all of the work.
- In New York state, 14 years olds can not touch knifes in the work place
- We had peppers and onions to prepare that day
- I was disgusted by the quest for profit over safety
- I worked nights at a local department store
- I was the only woman on a stocking crew
- We would race around the store at night in shopping carts
- My team often won!
- When I was 10, a family member tried to commit suicide
- It didn’t work, but it set up family counseling
- I was the one person who never talked in the sessions
- Nobody cared that I didn’t talk
- I started to withdraw
- I fell in love with a kid at school
- Everyone knew I had a crush on him
- He was scared of me
- I was obsessive
- I still wonder where he is
- I decided to apply to schools in New York only because Dad had lost his job
- In the end, I only applied to one school, University of Stony Brook
- I got in
- I loved it
- Long Island hair scared me and I never understood how people did that
- My first roommate was from Staten Island and incredibly racist
- College was the first time I met a Jewish person, an Indian person and an African-American
- One of my best friends was Indian
- Her family was very strict with her
- She tried to commit suicide in sophomore year
- Her family took her out of school and made her get married in an arranged marriage that she didn’t want
- I went to her wedding, but have not heard from her again
- After she left, I would go up to the chemistry building and stare out the plate glass windows at night
- I often considered running down the hallway and not stopping at the glass
- I never did it
- I went through a very depressive stage during college
- I discovered that going to the Long Island Sound or the ocean calmed me.
- I discovered that rough seas made me feel better
- That discovery disturbed me
- My first boyfriend dumped me when I started going to the mental health clinic
- I was devastated
- I threw myself into thermal dynamics and raised my C average to an A- for the year
- I started working as a resident assistant to start things over
- The woman that I took over for had woken up in her bed with a strange man next to her watching her.
- I got her room
- It scared the shit out of me
- I started a job in the astronomy program
- There was a grad student working on observations, I signed up one night a week
- It was Jay
- We worked together for almost a year before he asked me out
- I said no
- After I broke up with another guy, we started dating
- I was still working for him
- I applied to grad schools, but decided to stay with Jay
- I was the first planned Master’s degree in the astro program at SB
- Jay got offers for jobs in Germany, they would have taken me in the PhD program
- Instead, he took his current job
- I was officially hired here before he was
- One hundred things is not as many as I thought


Comments»
Love this post and feel I know you a lot better now.
Same here!
Sherrie in HB